A couple of years ago I tried adding my old roommate/friend on facebook, and she never added me back though her settings were public such that I could see she was adding other people. Considering that I didn't have anything negative with her, just a lapse of years, that was enough to scare me off adding others.
I got into fandom with my best friend from college (after college) and, in the midst of a major depressive episode, I seriously dropped the ball on some things in a group we were both a part of, planning a big event. I haven't talked to her since. This was in 2000 so it seems ridiculous to contact her now, but I really do miss her.
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Date: 2014-07-01 02:28 pm (UTC)I got into fandom with my best friend from college (after college) and, in the midst of a major depressive episode, I seriously dropped the ball on some things in a group we were both a part of, planning a big event. I haven't talked to her since. This was in 2000 so it seems ridiculous to contact her now, but I really do miss her.