Some mornings I have the luxury of spending a few minutes with the Internet in the morning, I hit LJ and see what's new, then the New York Times for the daily does of what's wrong with the world, i.e., the editorials and Op-Ed pieces.
Of late, the NYT has been running a lot of very fine personal essays about medical choices. There's been an excellent series about surviving cancer, and since I've been there twice, I always am interested. So I clicked on the article
My Medical Choice and started to read. It was a frank essay about a mother's decision to have a prophylactic double mastectomy. The author has the BRAC1 gene, which increases her likelihood of getting breast cancer by 85%, and since her own mother died of the disease when she was 56, the difficult choice was made easier.
There was a curious lack of sentiment in her description of the surgical process of having her breasts removed, which I found refreshing. I was also slightly squicked by the minor graphic details (but that's me - I have no problem with undergoing any procedure, but please don't describe it in detail).
About halfway through the essay, I read this line:
I am fortunate to have a partner, Brad Pitt, who is so loving and supportive. And I blinked. Huh? The author's partner's name is Brad Pitt...how cute. Then I'm like, WTF? I scroll back to the top, and realize that there's no by-line. I read the rest of the essay and at the bottom, the author is identified. "Angelina Jolie is an actress and director."
Yeah - Angelina Jolie.
Had a double mastectomy.
I know that there will be a small, vocal contingent who will find negative and nasty things to say about her. But you know what? I think her decision - to have this surgery and then to inform the world - is incredibly brave. We are a culture that worships physical perfection and Angelina Jolie has been a symbol of that for a long time. To tell the world that it's more important to reduce your chance to get a fatal disease from 85% to 5% than maintain the image of physical perfection is pretty fucking courageous.
Full stop.
I have no doubt that her plastic surgeons were the best in the world and that her hospitalization was atypical for anyone having this surgery, and she will be just as beautiful. But now, when you look at her, you will always have the knowledge that there's something different. Not less, not more, just not the same.
Brava, Ms. Jolie. Brava.
I should note that at some point, the NYT changed the front page entry for the article, promoting it to the upper right hand quandrant and adding the author's name to the by-line. When I saw it at 6:30 am, it was "below the fold", on the rotating carosel of articles.