Regarding the icon: I too love it, but have NO IDEA who made it. I snatched it for my private collection (which I use on my private journal only) and consequently neglected to write down who had created it. It's driving me nuts. But it's so fucking awesome, and so appropriate to my life right now, that I'm going to be using it as my only icon, at least for a while.

If you have any idea who made it, please, please, please do let me know!